Simmer Down Now!

You know how right before you wake up in the morning when you are between that deep sleep stage and full consciousness?  And you know how sometimes you can sense, in that brief time, that it feels a little too quiet for the amount of light that is streaming into the room?  And then, in the blink of an eye, you are flinging covers and running full tilt, screaming like a banshee, for your oldest to  “WAKE UP!!  WE’RE LAAAATE!!”?

And then maybe you’ll go out to quickly get the coffee started so that everything isn’t lost (priorities, people)  then, with the speed of lightning, grab a shower only to come out to coffee all over the counter and floor?  And then maybe you’ll  feel like you’re surely going to lose your mind (because, on top of all of it, your husband’s been out of town all week), but you leave the mess and all the rest of the sleepy people behind to make the 2 minute ride to your oldest’s classes, only to come close to certain death on the ride home because some woman is texting and is halfway in your lane?

And then maybe the 15 month old greets you with a stench that would choke a maggot as soon as you walk in the door,  so you go to change her…

And then you see this…

Quiet, Calm, Serene….

And then maybe you chill and realize that you are one blessed lady, indeed.

Thank you, Father, for the million blessings even in these harried moments.  

Love and Chocolate

Today, on this Eve of Valentines Day, I grabbed Julianna from her math lesson to help me with the trillion cupcakes that I was elected to bake for a party tomorrow.  She’s such a good sport for just jumping right in with no questions asked… or perhaps it was the avoiding math thing?  One can never know.

She even helped me with the clean-up which was nice because we made a decent mess.

However, they say “many hands make light work” and it’s true because we were done in no time at all.  Plus, it’s nice when you really love the person you’re working with, and it’s even more sweet since it was all about Valentines preparation, I suppose.

Isa always loves to watch the happenings in the oven since it’s right at her eye level.  I had to stop the cupcake machine for about 20 minutes, though, to pop in some lunch for us.  She paid close attention to make sure everything was rising properly. :)

And even though Carah Cate was napping during the cupcake extravaganza, I did get a picture of her earlier this morning in the exersaucer that we very recently brought out for her.   I believe that if she could speak, she’d say that it is her Valentine this year.  She hearts it.  A lot.

Now the kids are outside rescuing a caterpillar from untimely death because the temperatures have dropped so much.  At least that’s what they think anyway.  ;)   I’m about to go make a hot cuppa tea and sit down to tell that caterpillar that he should thank his lucky stars that a couple of kids decided to love him today.  I have a feeling he might not feel that way though.  :D

Hurricanes and Happy Boxes

This Monday finds the Westie Crew battening down the hatches in preparation for a certain Tropical Storm that has everyone on alert from our area of Mississippi down to the coast.  And rightfully so, I might add, because Katrina beat the snot out of our town 7 years ago.  We didn’t live here, but Mark was here for work, and it was bad.

After Mark and the boys got home from their Boy Scout campout yesterday, they secured a few things outside and then we went and bought extra tanks of propane and plenty of water should we lose power.   My biggest concern is all of the very, very tall pine trees that are around our home.  We had one come down last year during a tropical storm, which ruined a section of the back fence, but thankfully came no where near the house.   Prayers that our trees stay put this time around would be fantastic if you think about it! :)

In other news news we *finally* got the box of curriculum that we’ve been anticipating the most.   My kids loooooooove when boxes come!

You can tell how fast they are tearing into things in their excitement.  Speaking of excitement, I am really happy about doing Apologia’s Anatomy this year.  Biology is my favorite science hands down, so of course, I’m happy when it rolls around.  Give me blood and parts and SYSTEMS and I’m one happy girl.

Physical Science, on the other hand, is my least favorite.  If you’d prefer to give me a headache, start yapping about levers and pulleys and electricity.. blah, blah, blah.  This is what Jake is having to take this year.  Can you feel the excitement??  :D

Alright, I’m rambling now, so I’d better go.  Supper isn’t making itself!  Hope you’ve had a good Monday…

First Day of School

Last night was the Closing Ceremonies of the Olympics and, even though I lost interest after the swimming and gymnastics were over, it’s always kind of a sad thing.  Mark and I were talking about how different things will look in 2016 for our family:

*Ty will be TWENTY YEARS OLD.  Oh my…

*Jake will be an official adult himself at 18!  That’s 2 grown children, folks… where’s my brown paper bag??

*Juju will be driving

*Andrew will be a teenager

*And the babies will be starting school.

Just four short years and that will be the way our picture looks, Lord willing.  I’m glad Mark and I  had that conversation last night because it causes me to love and appreciate the here and now even more.  Especially today, as the Westie Crew starts their 12th (yes TWELVE… man, I’m getting old!) year of homeschooling.  I really love this gig.  Even when it doesn’t go the way I’ve planned… which is pretty much always…  it’s still such a blessing.

 

 

Baby 5… and 6 ~grin~

Sooooooo…  I had the baby.  EIGHT MONTHS AGO. :D   Oops.  Way to keep up with the old blog, huh?  Life has been busy, but I wanted to update for posterity’s sake.

Our precious Isabella (we tend to call her Isa, which is pronounced Ee-sah) joined our family on November 18th of last year.  This little cupcake has brought us all so much joy that words aren’t even adequate to convey it.  We are so happy for this precious little blessing whose smile and general happiness light up everything.  She has just recently produced her first two teeth and is working hard to crawl, but it’s kind of hard when NO ONE EVER puts her down.  She’ll do it before she graduates, so I’m not worried.  ;)

The big kicker is that we found out, when Isa was just 4 months old, that #6 is on the way!!  I am due with ANOTHER baby girl AGAIN this November… hahaha!!  Isn’t God good??  We were a little shocked at how fast it all happened, but I wouldn’t change a single thing.  I am due on the 21st, which is 3 days after Isa’s 1st birthday, but I never make it to my due date, so it’s entirely possible that these little sweeties could share a birthday!  I kind of hope that they don’t so that they can each have their own special day, but whatever God has in store is just fine by me.

Everyone else is great.  School starts back for us in just a few weeks so we are relishing this last little bit of summer vacation.  I really need to get everything planned.  I didn’t make it to any conventions this year because I had a new baby and I was sick in the beginning with this pregnancy, but I’m going to start breaking out the curriculum catalogs to get my “fire” going again.

Ty will be in 10th grade and will start a pretty intensive co-op that will give him some great credits for this year, so that’s a new thing for us since it’s 3 days per week and all day long.  He’s excited and I think he’ll love it!  Jake will be in 8th grade, so I’ve got to get him ready for starting transcripts and all of that.  He’s also planning to try his hand at Drama this year.  They have a *great* program here in our town.  Juju will be in 6th grade and will continue with her ballet and piano, and Squeeze will be in 4th and will do piano and Cub Scouts.  We are gearing up for a BIG year, especially with our next new addition, but I’m ready to roll!

I put a picture up at the top of this post from Easter of this year.  I tried to get it to the bottom, but I gave up when it put up a fight, so it’s up there. :D   See ya soon!

Teenagers

Today has been a dreary, overcast day here in my area of Mississippi.  But I’m not complaining.  I have a lot harder time wanting to stay indoors and do the necessary work when the weather is beautiful outside.  I miss those days when school was easily completed in just a few short hours and my big boys were fascinated by taking nature walks to gather pinecones or what-have-you.  Not that I don’t have younger ones to still do that with, or that my boys don’t still enjoy those walks, but school takes so much longer now.  It’s an all day affair if it is to be done well. 

This is a reminder to me to enjoy each season with my kids because so many times when they were all  little, I couldn’t wait for them to reach that next milestone thinking that it would make things easier.  It didn’t.  Parenting has the lion’s share of work no matter what stage they are in.  The stages are just different.  And they are here and gone before we can even blink just like we’ve always been told.

So today, I’m thankful for this season of life.  I love having teenagers.  Yes, I just said that. ;)   I really do.  There have been challenges and adjustments, naturally, as my boys have grown into young men, but honestly, I enjoy them so much.  I love having deep conversations with them.  I love to hear their thoughts and am often amazed at the things that come out of their mouths as they process things.  They are interesting and keep me thinking.  It even thrills me when their understanding of something surpasses my own (Hello, Algebra?).

I am beginning to see more clearly who they will be as grown men, and possibly the career paths that God will take them on.  But, one of the things I love the most, is that we LAUGH.  My oldest has a sense of humor that is just like my own, and my 2nd born finds things funny much the same way that his Dad does.  We think things are funny together and I just don’t know of a better bonding thing than sharing humorous moments.

I know that things are flying by, and I know that these years are short, so I am seriously determined to focus and am asking God to keep my eyes wide open to all of the blessings before me while my family is under this roof.  I don’t want the distractions of this world to knock me away from this, the most important thing I’ll ever do.  He is so faithful.

Sundays

My Facebook status today is “I love Sundays.  Love ‘em!”, and I really do mean that.  From the moment I wake up on Sunday mornings, things are just different.  Generally, I am the first one to rise and shine here in the Westie abode, and I really like to take that time to sip my coffee and turn on the television to listen a good sermon in an effort to prepare my heart for the day.  I will usually poke around the internet for greetings from those excited to fellowship with the Lord and other brothers and sisters, too, as the Crew wakes up and gets moving.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s not all bliss.   Inevitably, there will be lost shoes, mismatched or wrinkled clothes 5 minutes before we are to walk out the door, or any other form of chaos that you could conjure up in your imagination that follows a big family trying to make it to church intact.  But, there is a sweet feeling that I think God gives to His children, despite all of that, knowing that we are about to enter into the sacred obedience of corporate worship.

I love my church family.  There is nothing more beautiful than being able to walk into a place knowing that you are yours are welcomed, needed, and treasured as part of that body.  It’s the way He intended it, afterall.  I love concentrating in prayer for brothers and sisters in Christ without the distractions of everyday life.  I love listening to the Word of God being taught and voices being lifted for His glory and honor.  I love watching the children from the oldest to the tiniest knowing that they are part of our extended Covenant family and that they are all blessings.

I love worshipping.  I love singing the songs that echo what my heart feels with the well-written words (even if we are called “the frozen chosen”, we still worship… ;) ).  I love learning something new from the living and active Word of God.  I love to feel the affirmation of what He has already been knitting within my heart, and I even love the sting of conviction because I know that it is only handed down because He loves me too much to leave me wallowing in something so foul as sin.  I love church.

Oftentimes, after the service, we will share a meal with various friends, where we linger over conversation that ranges from the very deep to the silly and frivolous, but it is nevertheless, highly treasured.  There is something so special about breaking bread with God’s people.

 Eventually, this happens:

And in stark contrast, this:

 But, I love all of that.  We mostly wind up our Sabbath Day by going right back to where we started:  church.  The evening service is so much more casual in appearance, but deeply steeped in fervent, unorchestrated, Spirit-led prayer.  Once it’s over, you will find the children running amuck outside and the adults taking in that last little breath of relaxation before the week begins again.

Tonight, after evening church, we are heading to our friend’s home for s’mores and flashlight tag.  Things went just a little differently than the norm here today because Mark and the boys were camping this weekend with the Scouts, so it was just the younger 2 and me that made it to the morning service.  It has been an afternoon of stinky camp laundry and chilling out while listening to the plethora of stories after such an eventful weekend, but I am still so thankful, nonetheless.  I imagine they will all sleep WELL tonight.. haha!

If you all are interested in participating in the 31 Days of… blog carnival, it’s not too late!  Here’s the link, and seriously, check out some of the entries.  They are really informative!  Happy Sunday, friends.

Pure Joy (and a little sleepy)

I have so many, many things to say.  Such a huge story to tell you that will take up way more than one measly post.  Such a testimony of God’s faithfulness and mercy that has taken us over the span of years, but chances are, all your going to hear is this:

 So, it’ll have to wait.  :)   We are so over the moon with JOY.  Every single one of us.  He is so good and we are immeasurabley blessed.

“She who has believed is blessed because what was spoken to her by the Lord will be fulfilled.” Luke 1:45 HCSB…  Thank you, Father

Lovely Weekend

Spring is in the air here in Mississippi and I couldn’t be happier!  The doldrums of winter are thankfully tucking themselves away in exchange for blooming tulips and budding trees.  I had my windows wide open all day today as the Crew played themselves out in the warm air for much of the afternoon.  And even though I’m not a fan of “spring forward” on the first morning that  it’s active, I’m always happy when the evening takes it sweet old time before giving way to the stars.

We’ve had a busy weekend.  It started by having  dinner with some out of town family on Friday night that buzzed up from the coast to see us.  We were able to take them over to the house that we will soon be living in to show them around.  We are so excited to move in!  Only 2 more weeks!  Although, I have got to say that apartment living is nowhere near as hard as I thought it might be with a family of our size.  It’s actually been kind of nice.

We woke up at the crack of dawn on Saturday morning to head over to Alabama where we met my sweet, sweet brother and his precious family (they live in South Carolina) to help my mom move into a home that’s closer to her church and work.  We had such a great time together.  After we all worked hard unloading the moving truck, the guys and Nana went to return it and go to Lowes for some odds and ends while all of the girls got busy unpacking the essentials.  It was so sweet to have my neices and my daughter all pitch in to set up the kitchen for their grandmother.  The beauty of it didn’t fall on me unnoticed.  Family.  It’s where it all comes back to in the end.  It’s what matters most despite all of the dysfunction (and believe me, I’ve got some authority here) because God himself gave us to each other.

 After a nice dinner at a yummy barbeque place, we were back on the road to Mississippi where we all fell into bed only to be awoken by an alarm clock that was obnoxiously squawking one hour too early.  :)   Bring on the Sunday.  I’m not going to lie, it was tempting to turn on the t.v. and just “watch worship” today, but I just knew I’d regret it later, so I cajoled the reluctant Crew out of their beds and in about 45 minutes we were sitting in the van.

I love our new little church.  I really need to say that.  God has blessed us so much with a caring, wonderful, and loving church family already and it just fills my heart with joy.  We seemed to simply walk right into this place and it felt like home.   So many people are just expecting to help when we move because that’s what they do.  We didn’t even have to ask.  And I love it.  We love it.   God is so good.  We went out to eat at a local Mexican place with some of our friends right after the service and had such a great time of relaxed fellowship on this Sabbath.   Christ’s family.  It’s also what matters most.  Despite the dysfunction (and I’ve got some authority to speak here, too) God gave himself for each of us.  And it’s important to him that we do all that we can to love each other.

Well, now that the Crew is back in and all cleaned up, and I can hardly type two words without hearing “mama!”, I suppose I should wrap up this post.  This week is Spring Break for so many in our area, but not us!  :)   It’s not a big deal though, because we’ll be taking some time off during the move so “it’ll all come out in the wash” as my Grandma used to say.  Haha!! 

 Hope all of you had a nice weekend, too.

Man Down…

Well, it’s finally hit us.  The tummy bug that has been flying around everywhere has officially barged into our home now, too.  :(

I woke up this morning to a little man who was lying on the living room floor looking a little pale.  I thought maybe… MAYBE, it was just that he was still waking up, but inwardly, I could sense something was amiss.  Nevertheless, I took my best shot at denial right up until I asked him if he’d like some breakfast and his response was “yes, but PLEASE don’t make me any eggs”. 

~head hung in defeat~

Just to give you a point of reference, this particular child specifically asking to hold the eggs is about like me requesting to refrain from making the morning coffee.  I knew it was coming, and about 20 minutes later… well… you know.  ;)

So now,  Squeeze is all set up in Mama’s bed (the official site for a Westover quarantine because it has a designated bathroom) where he is just waiting patiently for it all to go away.

Bless my sweet baby’s heart.  I hate it when my kids are sick…

I’m of the mindset that if we are all going to get it, I’d rather everyone go down at once (save one adult for a day or two, though) in order to just get it over with.  That way, we stand less of a chance of reinfection.  That’s my logical wish list, anyway.  I hate the thought of this dragging out for a week or more just because we have a big trip to PA coming up.  However, I have a sneaking suspicion that our uninvited, unwelcomed guest will leave precisely when he sees fit to be through with us, and that won’t be on my timetable.  :)

Stay well, friends…